Sindhutai Sapkal a mother to over a thousand destitute children.

   A Marathi woman Sindhutai Sapkal 62, who is a mother to over a thousand destitute children is a living legend of a courageous rural woman. She runs a chain of orphanages in Maharashtra Her rise from a horrifyingly impoverished childhood and an unbelievably regressive marriage is an inspiring story that is now part of the recently-released biographical film Mee Sindhutai Sapkal.  
                       
  At the age og 9 she married by a man of 30 years old and abandoned by her husband at 20 along with her infant daughter, Sindhutai is an exemplary rebel who fought against a patriarchal social order and used resourceful ways to start life anew. No one knows her before her film release. 
  When the film was released, all political outfits in Mumbai and Pune booked shows for their grassroots women workers. Women who came to me in hordes, after the film shows, gave whatever they had in their purses. I think  there is not a single exaggerated instance in the film. It is a true but unbelievable story, based on my book Mee Vanvasi, says Sindhutai Sapkal.
   Mee Sindhutai Sapkal
   Mee Sindhutai Sapkal, a Marathi bio-pic inspired by the true story of Sindhutai Sapkal, will have its world premiere at the 54th London Film Festival that kicks off on October 13. There will be three shows at the South Bank (earlier called The National Theatre) on October 14, 15 and 16. The film was Produced by Sachin and Bindiya Khanolkar and directed by Ananth Narayan Mahadevan.
   Sindhutai was married at the age of 9 to a 30 - years old cattle-herders, who often beat her because he caught her reading newspapers wrappaings. The marriage was an unhappy one and eventually, Sindhutai was thrown out of her in-laws house and had to give birth in a cowshed. Desolate and destitute, she attempted suicide twice.
  Once she lay down on the railway track and only missed the rushing train by inches. On another occasion, she climbed to the top of a cliff and prepared to jump into the ravine below. She was stopped by the cries of her infant daughter whom she had placed under a tree.
  When she looked at the tree, she noticed that a portion of it had been axed and the sap seeping out resembled blood. If a wounded tree could shelter her baby, why couldn’t she provide shelter for other children, she told herself, and thereafter started picking orphan girls from the streets and giving them a home. "Today she has three ashrams sheltering around a 1000 kids. Another 2000 have been married off and some even hold good jobs,” says Mahadevan, who has recreated this journey that started in the 1960s and continues till 2010, in a film that he promises is in no way fictitious, fabricated or filmi.
  The film will also be screened at the South Asian International Film Festival in New York in competition. The festival is scheduled between October 27 and November 2. The lead actor of Mahadevan’s last film, Red Alert, had bagged the Best Actor award at SAIFF last year
   Sindhutai Sapkal known as "Mai"
   Mee Sindhutai Sapkal is popularly known as "Mai" or mother. She worked quietly in last 30 years to more than 1,000 orphans or unwanted children whom she has raised in five centres across Maharashtra. All these years, she went about her work quietly, begging, pleading and struggling to find money and resources  
  Mee Sindhutai Sapkal story - an example of the millions of Indian women endure even today - begins in lush but poor village of Navargaon in eastern Maharashtra. 

काही माई बद्दल

 

सिंधुताई सपकाळ ....म्हणजेच ..माई....वयवर्षे ६५, पहिल्या पासून ..काही तरी करण्याची जिद्द ..लग्न नंतर हि त्यांनी गावातल्या महिलां साठी त्यांच्या हक्क साठी लढा केला ...पण त्याचा मोबदला म्हणजे त्यांना त्यांच्या नवर्याने व सासर कड्च्यांनी घर बाहेर काढले लहान मुली सोबत ...पण २१ वर्ष च्या माईनि धीर सोडला नाही .. पूर्वी चे दिवस फार कठीण गेले ...पुणे च्या रेल्वे स्थानकावर भिक मागून गेले ... पण जे काही मिळायचे ते पण स्वतःकडे न राखून बाकीचे जे भिकारी आहेत त्यांना वाटायचे ...खास करून लहान मुलांना ...

त्यांचा एका मुलाखतीत त्या म्हणाल्या.." मला जेव्हा घर बाहेर काढले तेव्हा जगण्या साठी मी भिक मागायचे, पण आज पण मी कटोरा घेऊन सगळी भिक मागत असते, फरक फक्त एवढाच आहे कि, पूर्वी स्वतः साठी भिक मागायचे आणि आता माझी मुलांसाठी". पुढे जेव्हा त्यांना आपल्या पूर्वी च्या आयुष्य बद्दल विचारले असता त्या म्हणाले कि "मी माझ्या पतीचे खूप आभार मानते कि जर त्यांनी मला घर बाहेर नाही काढले असते तर आज मी या ठिकाणी येऊन पोहोचली नसती... ते सुद्धा माझ्या आश्रमात राहतात ....खूप थकले आहेत आता ..त्यांना बघणारे कोण नव्हते म्हणून मीच त्यांना इथे आणले.. पण त्यांना आणताना मी स्पष्ट सांगितले कि इकडे यायचे असेल तर माझा मुलगा म्हणून या .. पती म्हणून नव्हे..." हे ऐकून मुलखात घेणारे.. थक्क झाले...आणि ती मुलखात बघणारे सुद्धा...!!!!!अर्ध्याहून जास्त आयुष्य अनाथ मुलां साठी घालवले त्याच माई...

'मी सिंधुताई सपकाळ' चित्रपट आंतरराष्ट्रीय पातळीवर

अनाथ, उपेक्षित मुलांच्या आयुष्यात पहाट निर्माण करणाऱ्या समाजसेविका सिंधुताई सपकाळ यांच्या आयुष्यावर आधारित 'मी सिंधुताई सपकाळ' या मराठी चित्रपटाने आंतरराष्ट्रीय पातळीवर चमक दाखवली आहे. 'लंडन फिल्म फेस्टिव्हल'सह न्यूयॉर्कमधील 'साऊथ एशियन इंटरनॅशनल फेस्टिव्हल'मध्ये या चित्रपटाची निवड झाली आहे. या निवडीने समस्त मराठी कला, कलावंतांची मान जगभरात उंचावली आहे.

अत्यंत प्रतिष्ठेच्या मानल्या जाणाऱ्या या दोन्ही फेस्टिव्हलमध्ये या चित्रपटाची निवड होणे ही कौतुकाची बाब मानली जात आहे. लंडन फिल्म फेस्टिव्हलला १३ ते १५ ऑक्टोबरपर्यंत तर, साऊथ एशियन इंटरनॅशनल फेस्टिव्हल २७ ऑक्टोबर ते २ नोव्हेंबर या कालावधीत होणार आहे. जगातील अनेक नामवंत चित्रपट समीक्षकांनी या चित्रपटाचे कौतुक केले आहे. अनंत महादेवन दिग्दशिर्त चित्रपटात तेजस्विनी पंडित, उपेंद लिमये, ज्योती चांदेकर यांनी प्रमुख भूमिका बजावल्या आहेत. 

Kids thrive under the shade of motherhood...Part 2

Quote -‘Oh God, teach us how to laugh; but let us not forget that we had
also cried once upon a time.' – Unquote
These words are etched on the wall behind Sindhu tai's chair at the Sanmati Bal Niketan, Hadapsar, Pune.

Beginning with her first ashram at Chikhaldara in Amravati district, Sindhu Tai went on to set up five homes.

A home for destitute women, The Nadarmai Mahila Adhar Kendra, functions out of the same building that houses orphans at Chikhaldara. Her homes survive on donations and grants, and she unabashedly begs in village after village to put whatever they can into a cloth she spreads out on a table after her speech.

At the Krantijyot Savitribai Phule Hostel for girls at Chikhaldara,42 of the 50 inmates receive a grant of Rs 335 a month . "We bear the other girls' expenses," says Sindhu Tai’s son Arun Sapkal, who heads the institution and is a co-opted BJP municipal councillor. With money from Arun's curio business and money sent by Sindhu Tai, the inmates get by.

For Mai's children, the sorrow of being abandoned or orphaned gradually fades from memory as they follow the home's regimen. The children are divided into batches which alternately study, work and play.

At the Mamata Bal Sadan, at Kumbharvalan, home to 70 children, if one group is in the classroom, another will be tending the tomatoes, vegetables and chillies in the gardens. 
At the Gangadharbaba Chhatralaya at Guha, which houses 45 children, the kids even grow wheat. 

Deepak Gaikwad, the first child she took under her wing in the 1980s, in his thirties now, has taken over the charge of Mamata Bal Sadan from his Mai. Mai set up the ashram on a piece of land which Deepak inherited from his uncle. “ Donating the land, Deepak told me that, had I not taken care of him, he would have been nowhere," says Sindhu tai. It was the second home she built. 

The boys and girls are segregated after the 8th standard. While the boys go to Gangadharbaba ashram, the girls are sent to the girls' hostel at Chikhaldara. There are exceptions though. Vishwas Chaphale, 14, stayed on at the Kumbharvalan ashram to help look after the Small children, who run to him to get their cuts and bruises bandaged. For a boy who wants to become a doctor, he is starting young. 

Quite a few people opt to live and work for Mai. Babasaheb Dushing, 35, left his job as a hotel watchman in 1997. After his wife's death he had sent his children to Sindhu tai. "But
then I realized I could not stay away from them," he says. "So I asked Sindhutai if I could come here." Since then, he has been working at the Kumbharvalan ashram.

Gangadharbaba Chhatralaya at Guha is a bungalow on 10 acres, all donated by former Bombay High Court judge B.G. Kolse Patil in 1997. Though he wasn't an orphan, Patil had grown up in a home for the destitute. "It is totally selfless work," he says. "She is a living example of what a woman can do."

Some of the destitute women who land up at Mahila Aadhar Kendra are sent as gruhamata (mother of the house) to the children's homes. Kavita Gavand and Lalita Magar are gruhamatas at the Chhatralaya at Guha. While Lalita is a widow, Kavita walked out on her alcoholic and abusive husband. Their children do not stay with them, but at the ashrams in Kumbharvalan and Hadapsar. "It was a deliberate decision to keep the children away," says Deepak Gaikwad. "Most of our children are either orphans or abandoned.
What will they feel if some children began staying with their mothers?" Vacation time, however, reunites the kids with their mothers.

Although the children are not given in adoption, there have been cases where couples come forward to sponsor them. For instance, Udaysinh Mohite Patil and his wife, waymprabhadevi, have undertaken the responsibility of educating Pawan, who lives with them in Akluj, Solapur district. "My wife had organised one of Sindhutai's functions in our village some five years ago," says Patil. After Sindhu tai's talk, Swaymprabha devi decided that they would contribute by sponsoring a child's education. "He studies here and goes to Sindhutai during vacation," says Patil. The couple have decided to sponsor another child as
soon as Pawan completes his studies.

Like Deepak, most of her kids once they grow up support Mai in her work. 

Uttam Yevale, 27, who grew up in Mai's ashram at Chikhaldara, is a college teacher in Ahmednagar. "She is like my mother. In fact, she is my mother," he says. On the days he is free from work, Uttam potters around Gangadharbaba Chhatralaya at Guha.

Prakash Sapkal, 24, who grew up in the Chikhaldara ashram, heads the Chhatralaya. The history graduate took up the work after failing to get a government job. "Maybe I will not get money, but all my needs are taken care of," he says. "Besides I am proud of contributing to Mai's work."

Influence to her thinking & how: 
"Great strength comes from faith in God." 
~ Zechariah 12:5 ~
This has been true with Sindhu tai too. 
On the streets of Chikhaldara, she has been singing bhajans of great saints like Sant Gadgebaba, Tukaram, Namdeo, Tukdoji Maharaj and Varkari saint Bahina bai. She has so much love of poetry that she very easily and fluently quotes Bahina bai, Jana bai and Suresh Bhatt and offers amazing anecdotes. All this learning comes from scraps of newspaper used for wrapping grocery that she read and secretly treasured.

To this day her speeches are fiery, thoughtful and inspiring. One of her very catchy slogans is “Bhashan naahi tar rashan naahi” which means ‘Without speech no food for my kids”. No wonder, the response is immediate. Her sari pallu rapidly fills up with coins and currency notes! But Sindhu tai humbly says “My hunger taught me to speak and the pain within me taught me to sing.”

Legacy:

So inspiring has her life been that the Karnataka government included a chapter from her autobiography - Mee Vanvasi, released in 1988, in its Marathi textbook for 10th standard students.

Today Sindhu tai proudly states that she has 36 daughters-in-law and 177 sons-in-law. Most of her children are well placed in life. Sham Randive is a lecturer in history at Mhasvad in Satara district. Seema Kokare is an Ayurvedic doctor and settled in Aurangabad. The list goes on. But at 61, Sindhu tai says she still has plenty more to accomplish. "Let me tell you I am not Devaki who gave birth to Lord Krishna, I am just trying to be a perfect Yashoda."

This mother's ability to work is just amazing. She can work tirelessly for 8-10 days at a stretch. There have been times when she has travelled throughout the fortnight, came home for a while and then set out again. She is ever willing to respond to a plea for help from an orphan or a destitute. She refuses to take any rest saying she cannot afford to till every institution she started becomes self-sufficient.

The Marathi film Mee Sindhutai (2010 ) is a bio-pic inspired by the true story of Sindhutai Sapkal. The film was selected for world premiere at the 54th London Film Festival.[4]

Few of her awards:

* 2010 - Ahilyabai Holkar Award, given by the Government of Maharashtra to social workers in the
field of woman and child welfare [3]

* 2008 - Woman of the Year Award, given by daily Marathi newspaper Loksatta

* Sahyadri Hirkani Award (Marathi: सह्याद्रीची हिरकणी पुरस्कार)

* Rajai Award (Marathi: राजाई पुरस्कार)

* Shivlila Mahila Gourav Award (Marathi: शिवलीला महिला गौरव पुरस्कार)


Donations can be made to Sanmati Bal Niketan, Behind Vaibhav Cinema, Hadapsar, Pune India. For
more info: visit www.mysaptasindhu.org

Mother of orphans - Sindhu Tai Sapkal -- Part 1

India has a largest population of working women and professionally qualified women in the world.

Last year, four Indian women corporate leaders made it to the Asia Pacific's 48 'Heroes of Philanthropy' list and they were Kiran Mazumdar-Shaw CEO, Biocon – India’s first woman Brew Master, Anu Aga ex-Chairman of Thermax, took on to social work and was awarded Padma Shri in 2010 Kiran Nadar, wife of HCL Technologies co-founder Shiv Nadar and Rohini Nilekani, wife of IT major Infosys' co-founder Nandan Nilekani.

Major newspapers, blogs, worldwide websites have a plethora of success stories about all of them and many more. Let me tell you more about a  lady who may not match many of them in educational qualifications but has profound knowledge, an enlightened soul, an inspiring personality & a legacy and still looking for help.

She has nurtured more than 1000s of orphaned children and transformed them into doctors, engineers, lawyers and well educated people. She has taken on a dreaded mission that most would not dream ,if they were in abject poverty, hungry, beaten & abandoned by her husband when pregnant and absolutely destitute…

She is none other than Sindhutai Sapkal & also known as Mother of Orphans is an Indian social worker and social activist known particularly for her  work for raising orphan children. She loves being called ‘Mai’

Her nickname was ‘Chindi’ meaning ‘torn cloth’ in Marathi. She was named thus as an unwanted child. Her father, Abhiman Sathe was an illiterate  cowherd in Pimpri who was keen on educating her, much against his wife's wishes. So every day on the pretext of sending her out to graze the cattle, he would pack her off to the village school. She could only attend school until 4th grade. She was brought up in abject poverty. "There was  no money to buy a slate," recalls Sindhu. "I practiced the alphabet on thick, palm-sized leaves of the bharadi tree, using its thorns to write."

Marriage at the age of 10 put an end to her education. The groom, Shrihari Sapkal, alias Harbaji, was 30. "I was told there are only two  processions in a woman's life. Once when she gets married and the other when she dies. Imagine my state of mind when they took me in procession to my husband's home in Navargaon forest in Wardha," says Sindhu tai. In course of time, she bore three sons.

Sindhu tai created a sensation in Navargaon in 1972 when she demanded that the forest department pay the village women for the cow dung they collected. The department used to auction the dung to landlords and pocket the cash. "We won the fight," says Sindhu tai.The taste of success was  sweet, but it broke up her family. She claims that an annoyed landlord, Damdaji Asatkar, spread the rumour that the child she was carrying was his. "My husband decided to abandon me," says Sindhu tai. She was beaten up and dumped in a cow shed, where her daughter, Mamata, was born. "It was October 14, 1973," Sindhu tai intones. "I cut the umbilical cord with a sharp-edged stone lying nearby."

She later sought shelter at her parental home, but her mother did not accept her and instead told her to go and die on the railway line. Sindhu tai  wandered from town to town, singing and begging near temples. In Faijpur, Jalgaon district, she left Mamata in the care of a temple priest's family  while she moved around singing bhajans. "Those were the days of soul-searching. I began feeling I must do something for those suffering like  me." she said.

Then one day as she was begging for bhakri(bajra roti) to feed herself and her 2 year old daughter and wandering in the scorching sun for long,  she was so exhausted that she almost decided to commit suicide with her 2 yr old tied to her stomach. She was standing under a tree and suddenly its stem caught her attention; she noticed that it was badly axed but it was still giving her shade. She almost screamed ‘No I will not die.’  She hit upon a plan to take care of orphaned less privileged children of Adivasis.

The idea was just taking root when she found herself in Chikhaldara. A section of the Melghat jungles on the border of Maharashtra and Madhya  Pradesh had been earmarked for a tiger project. It meant people from 84 villages would have to be evacuated. "I reached there on a very  dramatic day," says Sindhu. A project officer impounded 132 cows of the Adivasi villagers of Koha. "For three days he did not free them; one cow  died. The Adivasis stood looking at their cows helplessly. That day I decided to take up their cause." Adivasis are primitive tribal groups which live  in utter poverty, have low levels of literacy and health and are a result of severe feud since 18th century.

Sindhu tai fought for the rehabilitation of the 84 villages. In the course of her agitation, she met Chhedilal Gupta, the then minister of forests. He  agreed that the villagers ought not to be displaced before the government had made appropriate arrangements at alternative sites. When Prime  Minister Indira Gandhi arrived to inaugurate the tiger project, Sindhu tai showed her photographs of an Adivasi who had lost his eyes to a wild bear.  "I told her that the forest department paid compensation if a cow or a hen was killed by a wild animal, so why not a human being? She  immediately ordered compensation."

Those things made people look at her with admiration.

Soon she realized the plight of orphaned and abandoned Adivasi children. Initially she took care of the children in return for some meager food. Looking after them was a source of livelihood. It didn't take long for it to become the mission of her life. She later donated her biological child to  the trust Shrimant Dagdu sheth halwai, Pune, only to eliminate the feeling of partiality between her daughter and the adopted ones.

Many of the children that she adopted are well educated lawyers and doctors, and some including her biological daughter are running their independent orphanages. One of her child is doing PHD on her life. Till date she is honored by 272 awards. She used all that money to buy land to  make home for her orphan children. She has started construction and still looking for more help from the world.

ABOUT MAI

About mai

“Mai” Sindhutai Sapakal Mother of Orphan children. She has devoted her life for the cause of orphan children. this is not a change of a day or two, it came after tremendous struggle and up and down in her life.

Her father Mr. Abhimanji Sathe was shepherd, who was anxious for his daughter’s education. He sends her to the school on pretext of grazing cow, much against of her mother’s wish. At the age of ten she got married with Mr. Shrihari Sapakal who was 30 years. It was an end to her education.

Life keeps moving “Mai’ became mother of three sons. A new turn took place in her life when she was pregnant for fourth child. Forest Department used to collect dug and auction it, they were keeping cash with themselves. Sindhutai demanded the right of the women’s that department should pay money for the dug Collected from the Women this raised eyebrows of the landlords, they took action and she was refused shelter at her husband and parents house.

At this crucial stage she gave birth to baby girl at mid night all alone, no one was there to take care of her and the baby. All miseries, frustration and depression crowded her. All alone she saw the real picture of the world. One needs specially women, support for her survival. The situation brought turning point in her life.

Her hunger started her journey by singing at roadside , begging ,crying and loosing confidence at every step. Her journey took her to a Adivasi (tribal) village called Chikhaldara in the District of Amaravati. Here too she fought for the existence of the villagers ,she started the work in the remote area but today is known personality.

Those miseries inspired her to build orphanages (ashrams), Institutes/hostels for development and protection of women. In 1998 she gave shape to her dream by establishing ‘Saptasindhu’ An Ashram for development of widow, deserted women and orphan child. She thought of establishing various schools & colleges.

She is rewarded by more than 172 awards for her work by various well known institutes which Includes:

• Savitribai Phule Puraskar’ by Government of Maharashtra.
• Punyashlok Ahilyabai Holakar Puraskar’ by Government of Maharashtra.
• FIE Foundation Award.
• Sat Paul Mittal National Award’ by Neharu Sindhant Kendra Trust, Ludhiyana, Panjab.

‘Mai’ is giving personal attention to each child as mother. Even today she goes door to door for collecting donation & inspire people to donate generously. Institutes and donors provide food, clothing & shelter to inmates of Organisation. The inmates are orphan children, deserted women, widow, broken family members and victim of criminal families in the backward areas.

In her journey of 35 years 'Mai' has groomed more than 1000 children, now a step ahead she is proud to have 175 sun-in-laws and 36 daughter-in-laws.

At present there are above 350 inmates under motherly shelter of Mai. Inmate’s age at the time of admission varies from day one to one or two or three months. Organisation takes special care of the small children by keeping Grihamata (day & night) till age of four. Organisation takes responsibility of providing nutritious food to the children.

Organisation tries to fulfill all the basic needs of children as well as provides books, reading material, teaching aids for their education. School going children are given admission onto Government schools and organisation keeps superiorly control over them. Various activities are conducted to develop Moral and Social health of the inmates. Special health camps are organized voluntarily by various Clubs time to time, like ‘Rotary Club’, ‘Lions Club’, ’Medical Club’. Organisation do conduct Cultural programs on the occasion of various festivals as Dipawali, Ganesh Festival, Makar-Sankaranti etc. every year for social development of children.

Organisation is proposed to built a Dream Home for the Orphan children & Deserted women.

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